حَدَّثَنَا يُونُسُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ حَدَّثَنَا لَيْثٌ عَنْ يَزِيدَ بْنِ أَبِي حَبِيبٍ عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ بْنِ صَالِحٍ وَاسْمُهُ الَّذِي يُعْرَفُ بِهِ نُعَيْمُ بْنُ النَّحَّامِ وَكَانَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ سَمَّاهُ صَالِحًا أَخْبَرَهُ أَنَّ عَبْدَ اللَّهِ بْنَ عُمَرَ قَالَ لِعُمَرَ بْنِ الْخَطَّابِ اخْطُبْ عَلَيَّ ابْنَةَ صَالِحٍ فَقَالَ إِنَّ لَهُ يَتَامَى وَلَمْ يَكُنْ لِيُؤْثِرَنَا عَلَيْهِمْ فَانْطَلَقَ عَبْدُ اللَّهِ إِلَى عَمِّهِ زَيْدِ بْنِ الْخَطَّابِ لِيَخْطُبَ فَانْطَلَقَ زَيْدٌ إِلَى صَالِحٍ فَقَالَ إِنَّ عَبْدَ اللَّهِ بْنَ عُمَرَ أَرْسَلَنِي إِلَيْكَ يَخْطُبُ ابْنَتَكَ فَقَالَ لِي يَتَامَى وَلَمْ أَكُنْ لِأُتْرِبَ لَحْمِي وَأَرْفَعَ لَحْمَكُمْ أُشْهِدُكُمْ أَنِّي قَدْ أَنْكَحْتُهَا فُلَانًا وَكَانَ هَوَى أُمِّهَا إِلَى عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عُمَرَ فَأَتَتْ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فَقَالَتْ يَا نَبِيَّ اللَّهِ خَطَبَ عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ عُمَرَ ابْنَتِي فَأَنْكَحَهَا أَبُوهَا يَتِيمًا فِي حَجْرِهِ وَلَمْ يُؤَامِرْهَا فَأَرْسَلَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِلَى صَالِحٍ فَقَالَ أَنْكَحْتَ ابْنَتَكَ وَلَمْ تُؤَامِرْهَا فَقَالَ نَعَمْ فَقَالَ أَشِيرُوا عَلَى النِّسَاءِ فِي أَنْفُسِهِنَّ وَهِيَ بِكْرٌ فَقَالَ صَالِحٌ فَإِنَّمَا فَعَلْتُ هَذَا لِمَا يُصْدِقُهَا ابْنُ عُمَرَ فَإِنَّ لَهُ فِي مَالِي مِثْلَ مَا أَعْطَاهَا
مسند امام احمد بن حنبل · Hadith 5720
It was narrated from Ibraaheem ibn Saalih - whose name by which he was known was Nu'aym ibn an-Nahhaam, but the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) called him Saalih - that 'Abdullah ibn 'Umar said to 'Umar ibn al- Khattaab; Propose for me to the daughter of Saalih. He said; But he has orphans (under his care) and he will not prefer us over them. So 'Abdullah went to his peternal unde Zayd ibn al-Khattaab to ask liim to propose on his behalf- Zayd went to Saalih and said: 'Abdullah ibn 'Umar has sent me to you to propose to your daughter. He said: I have orphans (under my care) and I will not give precedence to you over my own flesh and blood. I ask you to bear witness that I have given her in marriage to so and so. Her mother had favoured 'Abdullah ibn 'Umar, so she went to the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) and said: O Prophet of Allah, 'Abdullah ibn 'Umar proposed marriage to my daughter, but her father gave her in marriage to an orphan he was taking care of and did not consult her. The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) sent for Saalih and said: "Did you give your daughter in marriage without consulting her? He said. Yes. He said: 'Consult women with regard to their marriages. And she was a virgin. Saalih said: I did that because of the dowry that Ibn 'Umar was offering her, because I owed him as much as he was offering to her.
Sanad
حَدَّثَنَا يُونُسُ بْنُ مُحَمَّدٍ حَدَّثَنَا لَيْثٌ عَنْ يَزِيدَ بْنِ أَبِي حَبِيبٍ عَنْ إِبْرَاهِيمَ بْنِ صَالِحٍ وَاسْمُهُ الَّذِي يُعْرَفُ بِهِ نُعَيْمُ بْنُ النَّحَّامِ