حَدَّثَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو عَوَانَةَ عَنْ عُمَرَ بْنِ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ عَنْ أَبِيهِ عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّی اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ لَعَنَ زَوَّارَاتِ الْقُبُورِ قَالَ وَفِي الْبَاب عَنْ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ وَحَسَّانَ بْنِ ثَابِتٍ قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَی هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ وَقَدْ رَأَی بَعْضُ أَهْلِ الْعِلْمِ أَنَّ هَذَا کَانَ قَبْلَ أَنْ يُرَخِّصَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّی اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ فِي زِيَارَةِ الْقُبُورِ فَلَمَّا رَخَّصَ دَخَلَ فِي رُخْصَتِهِ الرِّجَالُ وَالنِّسَائُ و قَالَ بَعْضُهُمْ إِنَّمَا کُرِهَ زِيَارَةُ الْقُبُورِ لِلنِّسَائِ لِقِلَّةِ صَبْرِهِنَّ وَکَثْرَةِ جَزَعِهِنَّ
جامع ترمذی · Hadith 1055
Abdullah bin Abi Mulaikah said: Abdur-Rahman bin Abi Bakr died in Al-Hubshi He said: He was carried to Makkah to be buried there. So when Aishah arrived she went to the grave of Abdur-Rahman bin Abi Bakr and she said: We were like two drinking companions of Jadhimah for such a long time that they would say: 'They will never part.' So when we were separated it was as if I and Malik - due to the length of unity - never spent a night together.
Translated by Dr. Muhammad Muhsin Khan · Reviewed by Islamic University of Madinah · Published March 2020